Why is life so unfair to me?
Why is life so unfair to me? Here is a gentle reminder.
Why is Life unfair to me? This question arises to us, and every human being around ?
It looks unfair because there is someone whose life looks fair and perfect to you.
Ironically, this is something which everyone feels at some point or another.
You failed to see how torn their books are when your chapter turns unfair.Life looks unjust. And you start looking down upon the book of your life.
Life can seem unfair for many reasons, but it is important to remember that life is not meant to be fair and that everyone has their own personal struggles.
1) LIFE IS COMPLICATED: Life has its own rules and and it’s not the same for everyone.
2) LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLE: every moment in life is full of surprises, some good and some bad.
3) LIFE IS UNBIASED: something that seems unfair to you may seem fair to someone else.
4) LIFE IS ABOUT SURVIVAL: if you cannot adopt to your surroundings, you will perish.
5) LIFE IS A MIXTURE OF TORMENTS : Life is a combination of many torments and baffling situations.
When something does not happen, according to expectations or a thought process, one start feeling, why me?
• Why is there a relationship issue with me?
• Why is there a financial problem with me?
• Why do I have a health issue?
• Why am I not happy or I feel contented and peaceful?
• Why is life so tough with me?
Ultimately, why is life not the way I wanted to be?
Well, the only answer for all the above question is OUR OWN KARMA
WHAT IS KARMA? Karma in simple words means once own action of past life or present life, which will determine the present and future life of an individual
KARMA = ACTION
Now this action could be physical, verbal, mental, or vibrational
Therefore, life is so unfair to me because of my own actions happened either in the past or present by my own self
Good karma leads to good things and bad karma leads to bad things
When anything bad happens to us or things, do not work the way one wishes for then the question arises WHY IS LIFE SO UNFAIR TO ME?
Here are some ways to respond to the unfairness of life -
1) CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE: Ask yourself how you can shift your perspective.
2) BE COMPASSIONATE: Compassion can help when you’re going through hard times.
3) TRUST THE PROCESS: Trust that things will work out.
4) THINK ABOUT THE GOOD : Look for the good in the situation.
5) REFLECT ON WHAT YOU HAVE RECEIVED: Reflect on what you have received in life, without comparing to others.
ONE FAILS TO SEE THE BIG PICTURE:
What you see is the current picture of your life.
The unfair, The bad, The tough.
Just like the movies, middle part, where the Hero Is imprisoned , and the villain is enjoying?
Just because you do not know how the movie will end, you cannot anticipate anything unfair.
So is Life.
You failed to see the big picture.And you declare things unfair that tiny bit of life you are in.
